The Stories We Tell Ourselves…
People are very interesting…well some people are very interesting in that they will never give up the stories that they have running through their heads of how terrible their lives were. Or, how they did the stupidest things continuing to beat themselves up even when these things occurred decades ago.
The question that one needs to ask is WHY? Why hold onto these negative stories when we can create a new happier more fulfilling story for ourselves each day?
It seems that human beings just love to hang onto the negative in life because there is something to be gained in doing that.
I want you to ask yourself what stories from the past you are holding onto.
Then ask yourself what you get out of holding onto to these stories, because you do get something from holding on to them or you wouldn’t be holding on to them all these years later — even after many of the main players have died going to the other world.
Then ask yourself what your life could be like if you just dropped all the stories of the past wrongs done to you and by you?
Maybe at this point, you can find yourself in a happier and healthier place.
If you are unable to do that message me and we will see if some professional help could help you to get out of your old stories and help you to create some new ones that better serve your happiness and wellbeing — because the stress of holding onto all these old stories is aging you…in case you didn’t know it… as well as making you a less likable person — because healthy people are not interested in endlessly hearing your sob stories from the past — they have moved on…usually a very long time ago — like decades ago…